New and need help.

[ninelives]

Hey SW, As a new member of BITS, I feel confident in my response.

I am going through the same thing as you alost to the letter and I know how much it hurts and how difficult it is to focus.

But I think you are navigating it well. After all Divorce is just a piece of paper, who knows where either of you will be down the road.

I think that GAL is key and then if she is interested , you will know by the contact you get from her. If SHE goes dark, i think that it means that she is happy with the situation but it sounds like she wants to keep the lines of communication open.

I mentioned to Country and Islander that being in the friend zone only serves to validate her actions and that she now has the best of both worlds. Her affair and your friendship.

I dont know how friendly or how distant to be with the WAW because it is an area of unknown for everybody. Does she even know the answer to that?

Hang in there SW and keep posting.

BITS

Nine