Hey iwllbd1, I was able to get caught up on your sitch this morning, wow, we are in a similar boat! I think the tough situation we are in is how nice our W's are being, and how much contact the make. There is a fine line there between staying happy and pleasant and getting them to a point where they miss us. Where they realize they are missing their family. As you can see in my thread, I have had a hard time knowing how to balance this. I also have a call with one of the DB coaches on Monday, I will address these questions with her and let you know how that goes.

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