You can call me Nostradamus for predicting this long before you believed it.
Now I want to ask you a question.
I see you offered to wash W car and have offered other things along the way.
Are these measured offers? Meaning are you picking and choosing which things to offer with because of the baby steps you are taking or every time she has an issue you are jumping to help her.
I ask because I need to be prepared and I am curious how you are handling the balance between being dependable and overbearing "Mr' Fix it" mode.