Hi GAG,
Yes, Sanderika has a very deep insight and I always respect her opinions.

ow and her son moved in about 2 or 3 weeks ago which means she was there with him when H took D driving for 2 hours and then spent 2 hours here last weekend. She was there when he came to fix my house alarm the next day.

She has lupus, I believe. MIL told me when I had that issue with her that poor ow has a lot to contend with health wise.

I am in a good place atm, GAG. It may have a bad affect on H and send him away cos he may get the sense I don't care anymore.

H is still chasing happiness but it won't be with ow. Three to four months, you think......so stay tuned about May to June!

Cas