Bolt,
I am a bit tipsy and way behind on your sitch. Looks like from the skimming I did, things are still going well. The BITS membership has grown to the point that I can't keep up. None the less, I just wanted to let you know I am doing my best to keep up. And, you seem to be doing your best work also. I thought the massage thing was really awesome. I wish I would have thought of that while my W was still in the house. You are still an inspiration, none the less. I will use these ideas later if I get the chance. Hang in there, buddy!

BITS never walk alone!!!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...