Iwl,
Dude, I am sorry that I have not kept up with you. The BITS membership is growing so fast I cannot keep up with it all. I only have about 90 minutes a night to work on this and this is not enough time any longer. I just noticed that there was a point where 5 days lapsed between your posts and no one helped. I am very sorry about that. I have not dedicated as much time to this lately due to work and my own despair. I do believe my own M is just about over and I don't know if there is much that can be done to save it. My W had decided to move own and I have decided that I am not going to try to stop her. I will continue to do what I can to help you. I am very sorry that you are not getting more attention. Try to post a little something each day so that others will see you are active. Take care!

BITS never walk alone!!!

FOBd

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...