Try to be solution oriented

[Denver_2010]

Resilient- First, have you read Divorce Remedy and/or Divorce Busting by MWD?
If not, you need to begin there.

A few questions for you:

1) Have you thought about why you want to save this relationship (R)? If you have, what are your reasons?

2) What drug or drugs is your BF into? Some are worse than others, so I think that this is important info.

3) What are you doing for yourself so that you can be both emotionally and physically healthy as you are dealing with this?

My advice to you right now is to really focus on yourself for the time being. You can NOT control what your BF is doing right now. The only person who you can control is yourself. The sooner that you learn this, the better off that you will be.

BITS
Denver