I've sensed that you have become really discouraged lately FOBD. Man, it just hasn't been long enough for you to throw in the towel. You've worked so hard.
Remember, we are here for 2 reasons... 1) to save our M, 2) to save ourselves.
Don't give up on either of those things...
YOU are going to be just fine FOBD... Have faith...
AND approach this thing with a 'won't quit' attitude!!
Your W is still in a fantasy land... give that at least 3 months. Reassess after that... I'm serious man.
BITS Denver
P.S. I've been drinking a little tonight too!
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce