I've sensed that you have become really discouraged lately FOBD. Man, it just hasn't been long enough for you to throw in the towel. You've worked so hard.

Remember, we are here for 2 reasons... 1) to save our M, 2) to save ourselves.

Don't give up on either of those things...

YOU are going to be just fine FOBD... Have faith...

AND approach this thing with a 'won't quit' attitude!!

Your W is still in a fantasy land... give that at least 3 months. Reassess after that... I'm serious man.

BITS
Denver

P.S. I've been drinking a little tonight too!


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce