Question about the Men that left

[Queen_of_Swords]

If I had no chance at all, the decisions would be just as painful, but I wouldn't resist divorce and I'd actively start to look elsewhere for love.
10+ years of being ignored, seldom spoken with/to and treated like help have taken it's toll on me.

If I had a chance, I'd take it and I'm doing the soul searching and finding out now what I really stand for what values are important to me.

I'm used to working hard. That's nothing new.