you know what else? I find(and found) myself focusing too much on the R and not living my life - the whole GAL. It shouldn't consume every second of my life.
Once I overcame that - well, still overcoming it - my life became much more fun for me...
Now I just have to do that every day...
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE