It's me that's cycling!

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Cas,

I agree with Sanderika. She is very wise!-----kind of like a female Yoda.

I didn't realize that your OW was disabled. Is her disability for physical or mental illness?

This coming weekend H is going to see our son and stay with his parents. OW is not going.

Interesting..............

I am in a much stronger position now Sanderika. H knows where I am. He knows I am forgiving. If he genuinely wants to contact me, he will but I really am not interested in his crumbs. I've lived on those for long enough and they're not sustaining. I'm living my life for me. If he's part of it it will be because he's genuine.

It will be interesting to see if H senses this change in your attitude and if it evokes any changes in his behavior. It will probably be hard to know how to interpret his interactions given that OW is moving in. Do you know when OW is supposed to move in? It will probably take at least 3-4 months for H to begin to resent OW.

You sound like you're in a good place Cas. I'm proud of you. You're a strong woman.

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