You will get more responses if you stick to one thread.

JMHO...I would keep working on yourself...it sounds like he has some issues and needs to work them through. You cannot help him with this. Don't let him drag you down with him. Protect your finances and yourself.

M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing