I have a lot of evidence that my guy was with ow from his past recently. He vehemently denies this and says he has not seen or talked to her in over a year. Why would he lie and try to come home? What do I do? Pretend to believe him? Let go and let him come back if he still wants to? I want him home, but I want him to be faithful and have NO contact with her.
Yes, they lie. They all lie. Don't know why he wants to come home. Maybe for financial reasons. Maybe he is having fun with OW, but doesn't want to marry her. Maybe, he just doesn't want to have to tell everyone that he is cheating. They love to keep it secret. The secret is part of the fun of the affair.
But why come home then? We are not married. He is not bound to me financially. What keeps him coming back to me. He had not seen her for over a year, of that I am sure. But why when we were fighting would he run to her and then keep contacting me and want to come home and deny having been with her?
Well, I don't think he wants to come home anymore. He will not respond to texts or call me. I have given up. I guess it is good that we never got married. I will just go dark and if he shows up for his stuff I will get it to him.
But why come home then? We are not married. He is not bound to me financially. What keeps him coming back to me. He had not seen her for over a year, of that I am sure. But why when we were fighting would he run to her and then keep contacting me and want to come home and deny having been with her?
