Why is it that we find your thread so titillating? I'm thinkin' it's those subliminal messages you're sending with your word choices. You should channel that to your advantage with H.
Good for you going to a movie by yourself! I'm very proud of you! (and thanks for the movie recommendation BTW). I find that it's easier to go alone to any show before the 7pm show because there are a lot fewer couples. If my schedule allows it, I go to a matinee. I always feel as though I am "skipping school" when I do this and it feels extra special.......and it's cheaper too.........FWIW, when I'm alone at a movie I don't feel like a loser and I don't think you should either. I've been to enough movies with male friends or guys that I didn't want to be on a date with so that I don't assume that being part of a couple in the theater is a big romantic thing.
Originally Posted By: courageous wife
I am picturing the fish with little birthday hats...OR...did you mean that the kids and I would be wearing them?
This is better than what I had imagined.
Originally Posted By: courageous wife
Got home from work today to a message from the L's office looking for dates to set up a time for the settlement meeting........I hate to admit this...but had a little "expectation" that because I hadn't heard anything right away...well, you know what I was hoping for! Dangit!
I'm very sorry about this development. It seems as though a lot of folks in this forum are dealing with this kind of stuff these days. Let H do the work but stick up for what you and your children for your futures. Keep us posted about these developments, OK?
You should channel that to your advantage with H. 
