Sounds like you guys had a fun weekend! Way to GAL!
So, at first my husband told everyone. His dad came and helped him move out. He took off his wedding ring the day he dropped the bomb and he told everyone at his work. After a while though he regretted it, and told everyone at his work we were back together. Right now, only his family knows we are not together, and they are pretty upset about it. They have been telling him to make a decision either way.
If you want to get back together, my advice is not to tell too many people the gory details. I say this, because I had a complete meltdown when he left and told my parents way to much. I also gave my sister a few blow-by-blow accounts of our fights. The only thing this has accomplished is getting him banned from their homes. I haven't even been able to tell them he is coming home. I'm going to lose a lot by taking him back. Had I not provided so much detail I think things would be easier.