M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
I'm leaving expectations at the door but enjoy planning this.
The cool thing is that my kids are digging it. At the very least, I get to have fun with my two nutjobs. They're totally digging dad now. Even say how I'm much better than what I used to be.
If that doesn't say change, I don't know what does...
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
most definitely! Well, the massage went swimmingly!
My fingers are still greasy.(easy there, sickos - I'm looking at you, Grrr) The girls and I had a great time planning the whole thing too.
We went to Bath and Bodyworks to get some oil and some candles. Also got a nice spray too.
We made it into a little spa so that my oldest was waiting for her at the door. We all had Swedish names. You can call me Sven now. Init, or the oldest D took my W's things and handed her off to me. I walked her up the stairs to the bedroom where the younger D was waiting.
I went back downstairs to where the cushions were waiting for her. The younger D had her change into a robe and come back down.
I watched as one D was on her feet as the other did her shoulders. I then jumped in on the shoulders while both Ds were doing the feet.
The code word was AXLE for them to hightail it out of there. They did as I continued on a pretty sensual massage for the next 40 minutes.
She was totally relaxed and digging it. Nothing sexual at all - sensual was the term of the day.
We ended up chatting for a little bit more as I robed her up and let her get ready for bed.
She thanked me (not THANKED me thanked me) - but it was enough.
I look at it as planting that love seed - (again? Sickos?) for something much stronger later.
We'll see how the rest of the night goes but I'm not expecting anything - as a matter of fact, I'm giving her some space to relax and read all by herself.
It feels kinda nice.
I wish the best for everyone and thanks a ton for the help today and yesterday!
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
I can still feel a little bit of apprehension on her part though. Not too much but I think she was still anticipating something more - like I was going to push it.
I didn't though...We'll see how this pans out the next few days.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
