Hey iwllbd1, I have my parents here today and can't get caught up on your sitch right now, but thanks for responding, I'll check it all out later tonight hopefully.
So, the W followed up today as expected. I responded with the line I mentioned in the last thread: "She is doing great, we are enjoying our weekend together, I'll let you know if anything comes up." Should convey, I will contact YOU, right? Well, she responded right back "send me a pic!"
I have ignored it. While it is somewhat uncomfortable doing this, I feel as if it is right. Look, she left and everything is not normal. Maybe that means she does not get pics of her D every night she works.
Let me know if you agree with what I am doing. I have mix emotions over it. At the least, I can monitor results and see how this goes.
Enjoying my weekend either way. Happy Saturday all!
BITS
Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
Yes your are doing the right thing. That's part of your W missing out on family life. If something doesn't feel right doing then it's probably the right thimg to do.
I know it's hard. Also don't expect anything from her.....a call, a text, nothing. gr8
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I think that you are doing the right thing Country.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
I'd ignore it. She'll ask later. Going to take her a while to get the point...
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
I sent a pic!?!? . No text with it. Like I said, I will go over all of this with the counselor on Monday. At this point all it can do is keep the status quo. After all, no rush, I have all the time in the world....
BITS
Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
. No text with it. Like I said, I will go over all of this with the counselor on Monday. At this point all it can do is keep the status quo. After all, no rush, I have all the time in the world....