I really can't give you any advice bc I cannot take what I would tell you. I will say that I am in the same place you are, and I told my W on Monday how I gelt and wha I wanted. I know that I should not have done that, but I felt I needed too. Since thn I have went dark and not responded to several texts she sent me. It is very hard. My W moved out almost a month ago, and it is killing me everyday. I don't know if she will come back and I am afraid that by going dark she will just forget about me and not come back. But I do know that by chasing her she wont come back either. You are not alone.
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M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...