No, no no. Do not help her pack her things! This is somethign she want remember?
I thought the same thing too when my W moved out. I even thought I would help her. I didn't. Just know she was leaving and not coming back was too much for me.
It well for you too. Don't even be in the house when she moves.
I still remember that day when I walk into my home after she move out. It's going to be hard no doubt.
Listen, I have been at this for over year and a half. I'm still not divorced. Time is all you really have, use it wisely.
Detach, drop the rope, live your life with honor what ever the saying that motivates you not be imeshed with the though a being M. My W came back only after I completely let go and she felt as if she was losing me. Get ahead of her on the detaching curve. that's the way you make her feel like she's losing YOU.
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