I got a coaching session scheduled for tomorrow morning. Reading Love Languages today while I sit with Mom, and will reread DR tonight.
I've promised myself and my family that I will stand up for myself financially if we D. He initially thought I should take the house. When I pointed out that I couldn't make the house payment by myself, he suggested I rent out the basement. Really? The basement that isn't finished? I told him in no uncertain terms I would not get "stuck" with the house. Unless he takes it, it needs to sell before I agree to anything.
^^^^this was one of the moments that made me think it was MLC. But he had obviously been planning his move out well in advance like a WAH. Mutual friends think he has gone off the deep end, and are accusing him of living in never never land.
The Alzheimer's seems to be kicking in with my Mom the last 24 hours. She's having difficulty swallowing, leading to aspiration of food. Her lung problems now are due to food she's aspirated, not the pneumonia. This has lead to labored breathing. Her blood sugar is all over the place. She has been very calm for me today, just not herself. Her body has been through a lot this month. She told me before noon that she'd had a enough for the day, and was going to rest.
My niece was scheduled to relieve me tonight, but I'm thinking I might stay all night with her instead.
