hey zen...i hope you are ok i understand that you seek answers from you bil and sil i used to talk to my h's brother about our sitch, and while my bil was compassionate to my sitch i also knew that nothing he said to my h would change my h's mind...and that he was not going to tell me all he knew...i was ususaly more depressed after talking to him that was last year so far this year i have been dbing his bro, if you will when i talk to his brother, we do not speak of the relationship i act like all is cool and hopefully THAT is what he will take back to h, if anything it helps me feel better tho hope you are ok
