Otherwise, I don't think that anything was bad in that conversation.
You know, I'm making great progress with my W... I think... and she still makes little comments about future plans and they don't include her moving back into the home. I get a little sad about that, but then I remember that this is a process. Not only for us, but for them. We have to remember that they really did make the decision that they were done with the M. That is how the are/were moving forward with their lives. They are not ready to jump right back into the M... And I don't think that that is just words... it is where they are emotionally... It's going to take time to completely turn them around.
Patience.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce