Rue First off welcome. I can relate, my S is also involved in an A. It is a pain like we never could have imagined, but we must pick ourselves up. I did a similar thing to my S about her going to see this dink, only I did it over the phone. People in our sitch are bound to slip up. People just don't acquire the skills to handle this sitch overnight. It takes time. After I slipped, I pulled myself up, got back to my LRT/ 180, gave it time, and once again have noticed small changes for the better. Remember the WAS is a strange, unpredictable, and selfish creature not to be confused with your S. So keep posting and keep your head up. Also, have you been working on a 180?
