Went back through my thread to find some answers and came up with this...

Originally Posted By: sandi2
Don't send any of the emails. It is pursuing.

You are making this about "your" feelings.

You are trying to fix her.

-Sandi


Dang. Right now confusion reigns. So when I'm confused I know it means I'm about to learn something new.

Some great advise I've found on these boards is when you are unsure of doing something then DON'T DO IT!!!


Okay. I'm breathin'!

Long, slow, deep, diaphragmatic breathing.


I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?