IMHO correcting mistakes in behavior moving forward, is a better focus than attempting to undo mistakes made in the past.
When I make mistakes (often!) I like to ask myself questions like:
"What was I looking to accomplish?" "What did I learn from doing that?" "What else could this mean?" "What is most important to me?" "Knowing what's most important, what might I do different in the future?"
Forgiving yourself doesn't give you license to continue making the same mistake, it simply releases you of the unhealthy chore and burden of constantly beating yourself up.
You deserve better than to be unhappy with yourself!
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
