No one should ever have to go through this horror! I told my husband that he had to leave because it was becoming too awkward. Though I needed to set boundaries for myself (because I felt like he was having his cake and eating it too), right now I feel like I would do anything to have him home. Question, has your wife mentioned a D? Some days my husband says D others he says that he wants a separation right now. I have been sooo patient but I don't know how much longer I can hang in there. My husband seems to be "spinning his story very well" No one seems to think that he is being sporatic. Maybe I'm the one who is having a hard time seeing that he simply just doesnt want me anymore.
Me: 27 H: 27 M:5 years Together: 9 years No Children Bomb: 1/1/11 ILYNILWY & Wants Separation Moved Out: 1/30/11 Has not filed yet but says that he does not want to reconcile
