One of the challenges my wife and I have had is standing up for things we want. Both of us have been "easy-going" to the point of being wimps.
She has woken us both up by moving towards divorce, and now, besides realizing how much that I want her, I have also realized there are many other things I want that she still wants as well.
Just not sure if she wants them with me or not, anymore, but my suspicion is she does.
Anyway the 2 things I now want really that she said wanted before are:
1. A big wedding ceremony 2. To legally adopt her daughter
Right now she is having so many problems with her daughter and my heart aches so much for both of them I am feeling a need to tell her it is something I really want to do.
My concern is appearing like I am trying to force things again, but at the same time I really want her to know how I am feeling.
Do you have any comments or suggestions?
Thank you all for all the Love I am seeing every day on these boards.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
