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In any other scenario I would haven been completely fine about my wife wanting to leave, but I can't stop thinking about my son. In the long term (if my wife moves out of state) I want to have equal care and custody of him, but I don't want to go the lawyer route. Has anybody had any success in obtaining some sort of compromise with their spouses regarding this?

I haven't been able to sleep much; woke up to a nightmare.


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After the craziness of last night, my wife knocks on my room door and asks how I'm doing. In fact she was in a good mood. I guess she's glad she managed to tell me THE news without much drama, so it could be a load off her shoulders. On the other hand, maybe she respects me a little more. If so, I need to thread carefully and maintain being a husband, rather than solely a friend.

I also need to get her to draft on paper the custody agreement we made, so we can both sign off on it. Good idea?


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112
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