Lost,
Hey, sweetie, I'm back. Trip was fruitless, but at least I was out of town for some time. I just got caught up on your thread. Man, I am going to have to sit here for hours trying to get caught up on all the BITS. Sounds like you made some nice progress while I was gone. I am very excited. When is your date with your H? Please post the details when you get a chance. Still no contact from my W. At this point, she only contacts me when she needs something. Otherwise, total darkness.

Look, I really think you can save this thing if you want to. No doubt! And, I don't know if this matters, but I want you to. Please, it will be worth it. I love your goals/rules for the future. I am going to adopt them for myself should I get the chance.

I just wanted to let you and all the BITS know I could not stop thinking about you guys while I was away.

BITS never walk alone!

FOBD

Me: 39
W: 36
T: 15 yrs
M: 9 yrs
S: 09/10

So you can get on with your search, baby
And I can get on with mine
And maybe someday we will find,
That it wasn't really wasted time...