dude, seriously - here's what I've learned about speaking the spouse's love language. The more you consciously do it, the better you get at it therefor the more SUBconsciously to it.

Heck, I've even done it unconsciously. I just hope that was my W.

DOH!

m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE