Originally Posted By: grr
i have stopped pressuring - for today, anyway
no more
i am black and blue from you guys

he is a pretty disconnected guy, emotionally
i believe he does care, but his instinct is to take care of himself first
it's his world and we all pretty much exist in it

it has been this way from the beginning


it would be great to have a fb page
and see all the fake pictures that people put up
mine would be angelina jolie


but you are doing the right thing. Haven't you seen when you have gone pretty disconnected that he has reached out to you? Even a little bit?

Keep doing that because that little bit will become a little bit more.

The FB thing that I found that does work is the db fan page. It seems funny to have a "fan" page about anything related to divorce but there are some good things that get posted. I'll take just about any help I can get.

I agree with the fake pix :0 Mine would be of a praying mantis smile


m 40
w 38
married 15
together 18
d11, d8
bomb 12/19/10
2nd bomb 3/30/11
COMPLETELY DONE