You didn't mention how you handled this, but consider the next time he lowers his head, gently bring his eyes back into your gaze when you say your words. He will get from your eyes all the heart-felt meaining behind your words and will help him forgive himself.
Such a simple and great idea!
Thank you KAW!
You also said:
Also, PnB, you don't give yourself enough credit for who you really are!!! You are a survivor!!! ... hands down. The last year proved that! When the chips are down and your back is against the wall, you have the strength and courage to face your fears and come out on top ... and don't you forget that!
Thank you so much. What a wonderful PMA boost!
You are absolutely right. I AM a survivor. And so what if I can't kill a man with my bare hands!
Thank you KAW.
And here's a big piece of cheesecake for you to munch on!!
