hope, i'm sorry but he is an a$$ my h is the same way i'm usually at the bottom of his priority list and just why is this acceptable to us? i don't know it's really not until i find myself in this sitch and then i think i can put up with anything to make my marriage work except this time i am thinking a bit differently
i realized that i am too special to be m to someone who does not want to be with me and can't make time for me
we. as women are prizes and should be cherished
if they can't do that then "don't let the door hit you in the a$$ on the way out"
i'm going to keep doing what i am doing, but if it doesn't work, will i really be so much worse off?
i don't think so
hope your weekend is ok
grr, I'm telling you and Hope, this is exactly where my W was before she laid down the law and I came running home and am doing what I'm doing. Like I said to Hope, I'm not advocating it but your @$$hole Hs need a swift kick in the nether regions.
Short of doing that, maybe a complete detachment? I'm not sure. I would just hate for the sitch to get as bad as mine did before I realized it. I am slowly working back but I wished I wised up MUCH earlier.
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
