Need Advice!! Not sure on next move? Part 2

[lostinscared]

Dixie,

I would do almost anything to hear you sing right now!! I bet it's beautiful especially since you are in such a good place.

Yes, sweetie, God is absolutely in control and it is all in His timing. But what a work He's done on your heart! Look at you! And yes, it IS a good thing. You have got so much to be proud of!!!!

And I am proud to walk with you right now!!! I'm praying for you!

LIS

[zengypsy]

DG:

Well, well Miss Thang!!!! VERY nice job with H. Cool as a cucumber, handled with finesse and the best DB attitude.

I'm sorry he cancelled dinner on you - sounds like more of a postponment. I know you were really looking forward to it. For some reason, the timing still wasn't right. Don't look too much into it. You'll get your chance.

You done good kid! Proud BITS!!

[2stepboogie]

Can you talk?

Good

You got a minute?

Very Good

How it's our dogs new boyfriend and how cute they were...

Excellent!!

I'll give you a cookie if you can figure out why..

[dixiegal]

2step,

what kind? Oreo's and Milk...I'm a simple girl! LOL

[lostinscared]

How was your day, Dixie?

[dixiegal]

UPDATE:

So, yesterday was a CRAZY day at work....I was throughly pisst and disappointed by another associates display of character.

Anyhoo, a few of my girlfriends whom all had a rough day too invited me for Drinks and Dinner. So, I went. I had a great time.

I posted on my FB "2Day was a Killa, SOOO looking forward 2 Drinks & Dinner 2night!"

I got home around midnight and went to bed!

When I woke up I saw this text message from H.

H: "I miss you Dixie!"

He sent it at 12:57a - (he's at work at that time or just getting off)


So, I responded a few moments ago.

Me: Miss u 2


Okay BITS! Give me your feedback!!!

[Firstlove]

Dixie

THIS is a miracle, do you know how many times I have prayed to receive a text like that from my WAW ?

He has you in his heart my friend, and you did exactly the right thing, by not playing it - but just responding with honesty.

So, have you heard anything from your response yet ?

Very excited for you here

[Firstlove]

Dixie

I am having my own moment of encouragement here myself today so believe me when I say I share in your joy and your hope for the future, I have a bit of hope going myself here this morning.

Isn't "hope" such an amazing gift - we can do all things with just the smallest bit of hope. I am reminded of the miners in Chile who were trapped for 17 days and they had no hope, they did not even know if the people on the surface knew that they were alive. Then on the 17th day, a small hole was bored into their tomb, and a message came back to the surface that all 33 miners were in fact alive and safe with the message of "Los 33". The WORLD rejoiced at that news, and there was renewed hope for a rescue - just the "hope" electrified the nation of Chile, and in fact the entire world, we all sat on the edge of our seats as we watched that miraculous rescue happen before our very eyes. Those miners continued on their journey for the next 69 days, because they had hope for their future.

Your text from your H saying that he missed you, and yours in return to him with the same message, was your "Los 33" glimmer of hope for the future. Have another look BITS, its a good message for us all

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tricBoHDzDk

Here is my miner's hat off to you Dixie, for faith, hope and a miraculous rescue.

Well done

[Denver_2010]

H: "I miss you Dixie!"

So, I responded a few moments ago.

Me: Miss u 2

Ok Dixie... first, that is wonderful. And it shows that what you are doing is working!!!

But you've got to keep doing it!!

Now the 2x4...

Never tell the WAS that you love them or that you MISS them when you are in LRT.

You, Dixie, are most definitely in LRT...

Your H is wondering what is going on inside your head Dixie...

He was wondering last night... "Does Dixie even miss me anymore?"

This scares him...

BC HE knows... that if you STOP missing him... you can then go on with your life...

Without him.

THIS is what we want!!

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You shouldn't have told him that you missed him too...

No response... or "thanks" would have been much, much better.

BUT... what you are doing is working Dixie!! And this is exciting!!

Just keep playing to win Dixie...

Your H is on the ropes... have that killer instinct Dixie.

BITS
Denver

[dixiegal]

FirstLove,

Thank you so much for your words of support and hope. I'm praying for you and all the other BITS. Don't give up EVER! I know now that GOD is working on H (and me.) Really on all of us. I don't know what is going to happen but, I am really okay with it for the first time. I'm a type A person...so, the lesson was hard. But, I've learned to REALLY give it to GOD. He has it all under control.

I'm focusing on changing me, being a better person. Being the person that GOD has always meant me to be. I'm focusing on what makes my soul happy. Music, Travel, Adventures, The Outdoors, Animals, Sports venues, Reading, Cooking and being creative. Sadly, those things had become lost to me.

So, my fab BITS I'm gonna pray that we all find what makes our souls shine!

BITS

Dixie