The funny thing about 'refinding ourselves' is that in probably half the cases, the Spouse will notice the change and remember that is who they fell in love with in the first place. Then promptly went about changing those very things about us. And we let it happen.
It doesn't mean your spouse will be at the door panting to return to your arms, but it's just such an odd, ODD, parallel sort of world.
Keep looking ahead, not behind. If you look behind, you'll run into a tree. Happens all the times in the movies. LOL
