I could be wrong, but more and more the courts are becoming 50/50 states where obviously concerned and devoted parents are concerned. Even here in Arkansas. It can be a good thing or a bad thing. Just promise yourself that if you get the 50/50, and it ever becomes a bad choice for the kids, you will be willing to compromise. I've seen the cases of bad, too. Two households, two sets of rules. The one that has rules and enforces them becomes the "Bad" house and the fight is on.
You want this to end. I know you do. You also want to be a positive force in your kid's lives. You are that, I believe. Just know from the getgo that 50/50 can be sticky when the other partner is unwilling. And it goes on, and on, and on . . .
