If I am going to be honest hope.......This man! Me! When we moved to Jersey we stayed at my brothers for a few days. My W found and apartment because I had no interest in looking at did not like the search. She went out and found an apt. She looked at it I don't think I even saw it. My reasoning
M "babe that's your thing. You like doing that so go do it. Just let me know the address so that I can get home"
Come moving day I volunteered to do some extra duty and left her to move to this apartment all by herself. I showed up with a few friends to move the big stuff put it in the apt and left. My friends asked if I was going to help.
My response.....
M "na she loves this stuff. It will all be done when I get back in a few days. W is awesome at this stuff"
Again it happened when I was deployed she had to move all by herself.
The point is hope during this time I never considered it a jerk move to think or act this way, that prob makes me an even bigger jerk!
I know you are upset and I know what he is doing does not make you feel love in the least. There is hope, hope I did not see until it was too late, but if I can change.......anyone can
