Could be All of the Above.

Cat - maybe the way you wrote it scared some people off. Is there a way of phrasing it so it sounds "light"? Like Ï have 2 kids that I adore but enjoy watching them become more independent so I have time to enjoy adult time too. (not sure if that totally gets the point across but it could)

and just put - "looking for someone close to home".

Does that make sense?

Barb