whoops... I'm not FOBD! LOL... I must need some sleep!
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>UPDATE ALERT>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Ok so tonight I am driving a buddy’s house because a group of us are taking one of our friends, he is getting M. I am jamming to some music on the way there and the phone rings. No need to guess you guys already know who it is.
W “hey what are you up to”
M “not much how are you?”
W “I am good just getting into town from work. Ho w was your day”
M “day was good same as yesterday. How was work?”
W “It stinks but it is work.”
M “did you get the INS job you were wanting”
W “nah they are not looking to hire.”
M “Sorry to hear that”
W “what are you doing?”
M “getting some money out I am going out with the fellas”
W “oh buddy so and so and so and so”
M “yep the usual suspects”
W “Where are you guys going?”
M “restaurant buddy #1 is getting M so we are taking him out for the nigh”
W “Oh. Dummy. Ruining his life.”
M “It’s funny we found out about it last Thurs for our guys night out and he announced it so we each went around the table on did a toast for him”
W “what was your toast?”
M “I said don’t do it. Then I said you don’t want my toast I am soar on the M deal we all laughed about it”
W “yeah that’s pretty funny”
M “Then I told him M is a lot of work, a lot. Just to keep working”
W “he can live his life have all the fun of a single person and not have to worry about getting M and deal with the BS. Dumb move”
M “Yeah I guess if you think that way or want to live your life that way.” We made some small talk then right before the conversation ended W “well listen I don’t want to sound like a B!tch but what happened to the tax money you were going to get today?”
M “They should be distributing the funds in the next few days? Oh that’s why you called?”
W “Partly yes but not the only reason”
M “LOL OK. Well If you like I will call you after I get done. Will you still be up?”
W “you can try”
M “hmm lol ok”
W “lol”
While driving to my friends house I put the following joke on my FB “what you call dog with no legs? Don’t matter what you call him, he aint gonna come” I get the usual responses and then one of my very good friends response by saying F “Dude you are freaking retarded!” I laugh and keep going About an hour later W post (first time she has posted on my FB since my birthday last year W “I have to agree with friend! Lol M “you would haha” Then friend response again
F “of course she would I have been right about you for years!!! But I don’t have to live with you! You know I love you brother!!!”
M “ Dam*!! Low blow!! I guess 1 out of 2 ain’t bad ;)”
A few more hours pass and I get a text at 1:10AM my time
W “Still out?”
W “?”
M “Still awake?”
W “yeah”
M “I saw your FB comment very funny”
W “LOL”
M “U saw my last response? By the way I am waiting on the check”
W “Yeah…LOL I’m on my way home..just watched paranormal activity 2 Freaky a$$ movie!!!”
M “D wanted to see it. I said no way! Did u go to the movies or to your moms?
W “Neither with GF I work with…at her house”
M “Oh I was going to ask u how ur mom liked it. It was scary??”
W “Don’t let D watch it…..it scared the sh!t out of me!!”
W “And I don’t usually get scared at movies”
M “I know u don’t. You’re more of a crying at movies but not the jump cause your scared type. I guess I won’t be watching it” W “LOL yeah I may sleep with all the lights on LOL”
M “Now I am def not going to watch it! I still get scared at the exorcist lol”
W “I know…lol”
W “well enjoy the rest of ur night…hope u had a good night”
M “ I did. Thank you. You too. If u like call me tomorrow, I just don’t want to talk around everyone”
W “Ok…No that’s cool I understand…hope I didn’t bother ya”
M “LOL you know better……………..I think.”
W “I do. But still don’t want to interrupt ur manly good time”
M “LOL hardly if friend wasn’t getting M id be in bed”
W “LOL”
M “I just left I’m driving with friend to his house to get my car. I guess I’ll talk to u sometimes tomorrow have a goodnight”
W “OK u too”
This whole conversation started at 1AM and ended around 2AM.
No R/M talk which is important. Also the FB thing kind of surprised me a lot because she never mentions checking my FB page let alone post anything on it.
Special note I did not drunk call. I actually did not even text with her while I was drunk. I never really got to that point I sobered up pretty quick.
Nice work man! Your W is still in love with you. Just keep being consistent. You're M is going to be fine. It's just going to take more patience and time.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
Is there any reason at all that you might find yourself in Tulsa or in that area, other than to see your W?
Work, buddies... anything?
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
I do believe it was a nice convo and found somewhat interesting that she was curious about what I was doing. She is not in Tulsa she is about 1.5hrs N in a small town called blackwell. Only real reaso. I would be In Proximity to her is to visit my sister who lives just a few minutes away in the next town. She would see right through that since I see my sis maybe once a yr. Before December last time I was in that town was 4 yrs ago.
This is something I'm bringing up to the DB coach tomorrow though. At some point I have to make a move and sometime I get the same gut feeling u get and I think I need to take some action. I just don't know if the time is right.
On my phone so if it is chopped up I'm sorry. I usually don't spell check anyways I'm sure no one has noticed
That means it's like 4:45 in the morning there grr! Damn... my kind of girl!
Want some Stranahan's whiskey??
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
I agree 2Step. Talk to you DB coach about it for sure. I'd just hate for you to do anything prematurely.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
This guy is like a cheap date. He is offering that stuff to everybody. How big is that bottle. By the grr is in the west coast this week. I'm the one pulling the dig le shift. Het Denver u ever notice we are usually the only two bits on here this late. We are either dedicated or we have no life. I don't know about u but the dedicated part certainly fits me
