I am sooo DONE

[wanda15]

I have been posting in Newcomers for about a month now. After the events and discoveries this week I do believe I am the true WAS. On Jan 14, 2011 I asked my H not to come home. Things were too much. He wasn't coming home allthe time anyways and I was tired of it. So after 2 weeks of him being gone and me not having any contact except through text for kids, he wanted to talk. We had a good talk he told me he loved me and wanted to come home. So for 2 more weeks we tried to work on things. I knew that something wasn't right. He wasn't here every night and would disappear at times.

On V-day, which is also our anniversary, he gave me a corny card and left for the day. I knew something was wrong. I texted him later that night and told him I was done. Told him to stay away again. The last few days with him gone I have discovered some very wrong, awful disturbing things about my H.

Firstly, H had an affair about 4 years ago. He told me and we tried to work past it. Things were okay for awhile. Moving forward to today, I have found out that he was sleeping with more than just one woman. There was more. He has also told his friends we have been split up since November. Complete lie. He tried to sell our travel trailer without me knowing. He has been trying to get his friends to hook him up with women. He left our S11 in a hotel room in a strange city so he could go to the strippers and then brings him back a signed to H poster for S11. And that is just the beginning.

This is the story that has me so creeped out...A few years ago we had a July 1st party. Lots of people and food and booze. At the end of the night one of our guests was to drunk to drive. We put her in the camper to crash. Half hour later I notice my H is missing. I discover him in the camper and both of them are standing up with their pants undone. There was screaming and yelling and she left. H and I fought and eventually I went to bed.

This is the part I did not know. When she went to the camper she passed out. She was woken up by H who was undoing her pants and trying to get into bed with her. When I walked in, I actually saved her. But, after I went to bed, H got in his truck and followed her home. He snuck into her house, got undressed and crawled into her bed...she woke up to him trying to have sex with her.

This whole story creeps me out. I don't even know who the heck I am married too. Just dumbfounded tonight. And I am so done with this marriage.