I still want to make this work

[angel61]

Country, I've read your sitch and I think the reason why your W is acting like that is because it is still an early A. Your W is happy because she is still in fantasy land, and OM is fulfilling her, she is like an addict with a new drug, seeing the world with rose colored glasses.

The impact of what she is doing with her life has not hit her yet. But your W is an RN - she must be smart and compassionate and caring to be in that kind of job - sooner or later realization should come. Of course a little help from you might come in handy....

And one way is to distance, to make her miss you, to not provide some of the things she takes for granted you will take care of.

One of the things that DR always emphasizes is patience. They say when an M is broken, the longer you have been in it, the longer it takes to recover. One of the ways to estimate it is 1 month for every year of M ... where did I read that?