Just wanted to say I read your posts and was thrilled to read of your wife's wholly unexpected response and decision to attend the party. That is ABSOLUTELY a good sign, but please keep perspective. When you go, keep your expectations in check. I'm sure you've heard of 'testing' behavior and I suspect she'll exhibit some now that she's taken a step towards you.
Good luck though, and congrats
markk
Me: 55 Her: 50 M: 21, T: 24 D, 13 - D,17 The bomb: March 1, 2010 Separated: Oct 9, 2010
