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Hi Resilient, please breathe and try to relax. I think right now you need to just step back. If he is going dark, let him, at least for a while. Try to get yourself to a better place before you contact him, in the meantime he may contact you. Do whatever helps you relax. I know the feeling when panic hits, it keeps you from thinking clearly. I know not many people are on the board tonight so it is frustrating. I will be up for a little longer if you need to chat.