Thanks for the feedback all. I really needed to fill up the tanks here again. Last weekend really tested my resolve. While I was proud of a lot of my reactions, I also got upset at myself that I let her into my head.
I was scared. My spouse went ape and showed a side I'm not familiar with (unless she's drunk). I have always avoided rocking the boat and conflict with her was sidestepped. This obviously contributed to our downfall. So I see elements of my attempts at detachment failing the way I did in my M.
[/quote]Honestly dude…next time call the cops![/quote]
Stone cold tutu-wearing gangsta, Eric! That's a bit hard core right now because I do try to maintain a good R with her family. This might be viewed negatively eventhough it may be warranted at some point. Good to have you back man.
M / W: 43 D8 S6 M 10 years / T 13 years W admitted EA/PA: 10.6.09 Separated in same house 10.6.09 W moved out 2.27.10