That is great advice Sandi, it really hits home with me. I know that the relationship I had with my wife might have been too much like a friendship, and I did not do the things a good H would do. I have thought a lot about that recently.
Hope all is well alamo. I have been following your sitch and I know how hard it all is. Keep up the good work and keep moving forward.
Thanks, Country Song. I dig your username, BTW.
Thank you (and all y'all's) confidence in me. I wish I knew if I was doing good work. Mostly I feel better about myself, which is good. I cry less (alone and with friends, of course), I definitely don't plead and beg...I am definitely handling the bomb and living it much better than I did during the first few months, as recently as December, actually.
Wow, you know what? Just realized I've only been DBing only for 2 months or 3 at most. I'm neither the best DBer there is nor following the book to the T, but man, it sure feels like I've been doing this longer than the 2-3 months. I DO have a long way to go, even if you go by the number of years of marriage vs. number of months practicing DBing gauging system.
