That is great advice Sandi, it really hits home with me. I know that the relationship I had with my wife might have been too much like a friendship, and I did not do the things a good H would do. I have thought a lot about that recently.
Hope all is well alamo. I have been following your sitch and I know how hard it all is. Keep up the good work and keep moving forward.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.