Recovering after a same sex affair

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Words of wisdom, Figg. You are the person I can always rely on to get my thoughts back in order.

It is really difficult NOT to think of her as she goes through this major self discovery. I know she is not broken and cannot be fixed. I would just love for her to get to a point where she can communicate some of the thoughts she has been analyzing for the last seven months. I have been an open book to her since discovery, but she is just not there yet. It is pretty hard, but I understand your message. Quit worrying about her. Just take care of me. Patience.

Having a great time with my son. Took him for a two mile walk after work while he was strapped to my chest. If any parents out there have babies, those Baby Bjorns are pretty awesome. My little man will hangout forever looking forward when he has new sites to take in. I am now through his bedtime routine, and he is sounds asleep.

Tonight, I am going to continue going through DR (highlighting and studying along the way). I just need to concentrate and put these methods to practice. I often ask questions here, because I still really don't know where I stand with my wife and her sexual orientation. I thank all of you for your insight. I am blessed to have this community available to me.