Oh God, grr... I am so sorry!!! I am just so sorry.
Your H is an a$$. (sorry, not nice, but that mama bear thing is coming out again) You're not being sensitive, you are being human and I agree that it isn't too much for someone to know that it is probably not good for you to be alone.
I am so sorry. Grr, any chance of getting some help for the sleep? I told you guys about my nightmares and I got some anti-anxiety pills and they really helped me a lot. I still have nightmares, but not all the time. You really need to get some sleep, sweetie. A lot of the people on this board do.