Oh, that's good, JS! What did you have?? My H was the cook in our house so when he stopped cooking, I stopped eating. It was a great diet plan but alas, like you, I got hungry
I still think it is a good thing to try and slow things down. Again, so long as it doesn't provoke your wife further.
I was pretty worried about you opening the proposal... kind of lurking to see what would happened when you did (which is why I asked yesterday). You did great.
It really astounds me how well you are able to put things into perspective. However, you still need to let yourself feel the grief sometimes. You seem so strong to me, but I know that you are in a lot of pain. We're here for you, JS. I know this stinks. Keep up the DB'ing. They seem so in a rush for the D, but their long range planning isn't so good. Once that catches up with them, it usually slows down.
