I know, but she contacts me every day with something about our D. Either "here is a pic, she is so cute" or "how is the girl? send me a pic." I have been responding to these as noted, and I don't know what else to do. The degree to which she is doing it is definitely unnecessary. We both see her regularly. I know that just recently I was also offering other 'friendly' conversation but I have totally stopped that, and will continue that behavior.

Right now, for me, I wish it would stop all together. 2step is totally right, she isn't missing a thing right now, I just don't know how to handle it because of the subject of the conversations. And keep in mind, these are short and sweet, but sweet nonetheless.

She still doesn't seem to care why I am acting so happy. She hasn't shown one sign of not being happy. It is just an $%@#$'d up situation.

I feel like it is keeping me from detaching properly. IDK, I am just thinking out loud here....


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